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that in order to understand the psychological sequelae on this family resulting from
the forced disappearance of Mr. Santiago Gómez-Palomino, it is necessary to
understand first who he was and what he meant to his family. Mr. Santiago GómezPalomino was the eldest son, the only member of the family with a steady job. He
lived with his mother and younger brother and sisters, performing a paternal role —
he was active and caring.
Mrs. Victoria Margarita Palomino-Buitrón is a woman with Andean features and
clothing. Quechua is her mother tongue, for which reason she prefers her children
to speak this language inside the family, as if she felt they can express what she
has had to live through in a better way, in spite of the fact that she also speaks
Spanish. She lives in the city of Lima with her four children (three daughters and a
son) and with the posthumous daughter of her late son Mr. Santiago GómezPalomino. She has got eight children by three different relationships, the fathers of
whom have not lived together with her. Mrs. Victoria Margarita Palomino-Buitrón
gives vent to her feelings by crying when the subject of her son’s disappearance is
brought up, evidencing her suffering to be still current at present. The
disappearance of her son meant a valuable moral financial and family loss —his
brother and sisters lost a supporting, stimulating father figure, who is emotionally
present. At the time Mr. Santiago Gómez-Palomino was abducted, he was in charge
of five of his brothers and sisters.
Both her children and Mrs. Victoria Margarita Palomino-Buitrón have pointed out
that there has been a turning point in her personality, which evidences the mark left
in her psyche and her subjectivity by the traumatic event. The death of a son
overturns the order of generations and is always a cause of great psychological
suffering. Hence, the disappearance of her son marked Mrs. Palomino-Buitrón with
an extreme experience of suffering, which was converted into aggression and
hostility, especially towards her other minor children. As a consequence, this also
brought thoughts of suicide into the mind of Mrs. Victoria Margarita PalominoBuitrón. The constant daily visits to clinics and hospitals for almost a year led her to
abandon her minor children. The feeling of guilt that accompanies the whole
mourning process has been increased owing to the fact that it was Mrs. Victoria
Margarita Palomino-Buitrón who asked Santiago’s common-law wife for them to
leave her house, and this is why Mrs. Palomino-Buitrón feels that her request was
the reason why her son was at his cousin’s home, María Elsa Chipana-Flores. This
prompts in her persecutory fantasies in connection with the daughter of Mr.
Santiago Gómez-Palomino, as Mrs. Palomino-Buitrón thinks what was done to her
son may be done to the girl, and this is why she isolates her and does not trust
anyone who gets near her. Mrs. Victoria Margarita Palomino-Buitrón experiences
three types of psychosomatic sequelae, such as three facial paralyses, rheumatism
and osteoporosis. Likewise, the traumatic event caused her a chronic depression
owing to an unelaborated mourning process, depression which she has passed on
both to her own children and to Mr. Santiago Gómez-Palomino’s daughter, thus
evidencing a transgenerational chain transmitting non-resolved, non-elaborated
suffering.
The girl Ana María Gómez-Guevara, posthumous daughter of Mr. Santiago GómezPalomino, is 13 years old and attends sixth grade at a primary school. Since she
was fifteen days old, she has been brought up by her grandmother, who suffers
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